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Beware the Stoics

Everyone should be aware of stoicism. But be careful of drinking too deeply of the draught of this philosophy.

It’s not hard to see why the popularity of the Stoics is on the rise. For a generation that has been taught that everything is meaningless, stoicism offers some direction, purpose, and much-needed discipline. It calls for responsibility and is, above all, a very practical philosophy, with maxims to practice and do. Its body of literature is also large, accessible, and readable.

A pagan could do much worse than Stoicism.

Though ultimately, it can lead to despair. Just read up on the lives of some popular Stoics and how their lives ended. Or how they wrote about suicide as a logical end. True disciples of stoicism risk becoming like their teachers.

One of the other dangers is the cultivation of ingratitude. This isn’t unique to Stoicism, but it can fester in unique ways.

Take this quote from Marcus Aurelius:

Like seeing roasted meat and other dishes in front of you and suddenly realizing: This is a dead fish. A dead bird. A dead pig. Or that this noble vintage is grape juice, and the purple robes are sheep wool dyed with shellfish blood. Or making love – something rubbing against your penis, a brief seizure and a little cloudy liquid. Perceptions like that – latching onto things and piercing through them, so we see what they really are. That’s what we need to do all the time – all through our lives when things lay claim to our trust – to lay them bare and see how pointless they are, to strip away the legend that encrusts them.

If this is the lens you start to see everything through, your life will start to seem rather drab and dreary. True, it will help inoculate you if you ever lose access to the finer things…but to what end?

What if the vaccine is worse than the disease?

Better the Christian way. In everything, give thanks. Everything is sanctified through thanksgiving (1 Tim. 4:4-5). All things are a gift from God. The Lord gives and the Lord takes away, and either way, blessed be the name of the Lord.

It was never ours to begin with. We were just stewards for a time.

Enjoy the blessing God has given you. Be a wise steward of the good things He has placed into your hand. But let these things point you to the One who is eternal and never-changing.

How does the Bible talk about some of the things Aurelius talks about?

Oh, taste and see that the LORD is good!

Psalm 34:8

Go, eat your bread with joy, and drink your wine with a merry heart, for God has already approved what you do.

Ecclesiastes 9:7

On this mountain the LORD of hosts will make for all peoples a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wine, of rich food full of marrow, of aged wine well refined. 

Isaiah 25:6

May your fountain be blessed,
    and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
     A loving doe, a graceful deer—
    may her breasts satisfy you always,
    may you ever be intoxicated with her love.

Proverbs 5:18-19

Far from stripping away the legend that encrusts them, we should revel in it.

God Himself created the legend of these blessings, and it turns out that when you get through the crust, it’s still legend all the way down.

Stoicism claims to let us see things as they really are. But that’s only possible through unrelenting gratitude and the eyes of faith.

One reply on “Beware the Stoics”

Solid points! I appreciate your insight here (and in all your posts). Stoicism is indeed very attractive these days given our sea of narcissism and self-indulgence, and we can learn a lot from its core tenets. But suffering has an end beyond simply preparing us for even greater suffering, and that end is the joy and love.

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